Another element of bondage is viewing either a couple or a single man or woman either in bondage gear or being disciplined by her master or dominatrix. If you are new to bondage and haven’t quite experienced it yet, there is an easy way to try it out to see if it is for you, without actually participating.
Find a Good Cam Site that Participates in BDSM
A lot of cam sites will host hosts that have a bondage room. A lot can be quite professional, with actual bondage studios set up for your enjoyment. You can browse the web for many different cam sites or you can browse this resource we found for the best webcam sites and see for yourself. They also have a fanpage and have seen some very attractive cam girls participating in bondage.
So getting back to the newbie in you (should you be one) then you might want to experiment with a cam girl first. If you go view a cam site that you found that appeals to you, you can look for headings such as bdsm, dominatrix and so on. In there, you will find models that participate in bondage that will suit your needs.
You can also search the site for pictures and through the pics you can identify which woman or man participates in bondage. This should be readily apparent and an easy way to find someone.
What to do First?
Before jumping right in to the model’s chatroom, you can have a discussion first. Most sites will have a free chat option where you can ask the model what she is into. Ask her what she has. Whips, chains, gags, whatever you are into. You don’t want to be disappointed going into a live chat session and she doesn’t have the tools that you want. Sometimes you can even see them hanging on the way behind her.
Next, after discovering that she has the sex items you like, ask her (or him) how far she is willing to go. Some of these cam models will have limits and it is up to you to find how far she will go with these limits. Sometimes you can fully exploit these women and get them to go as far as you want, other times it is not so easy. The women that are dominant will have a harder time giving into your demands, whereas a woman that is submissive may actually give in and do what you wish, albeit for a price.
See if you Like It
Camming is a great way to get started if you are new to bondage. For some people that are curious, tying up your girlfriend or lover may have some consequences, you may realize you don’t like it afterall. So, having a visual interaction with a cam model will help you decide whether or not bondage is for you. Beware though, it is quite different in person, as touch has a lot to do with it. However, the sense of visual is very powerful, you may like what you see but you will need to find this out for yourself.